Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Monday, December 30, 2013

Post Vacation Bad News, Good News

The Bad News:

  • Gophers lost their bowl game
  • Weather was less than optimal in the Carolinas
  • I took a digger skiing
  • I already miss my family
  • I gained a couple of pounds back
  • I gotta go back to work
  • Weather here is horribly cold


    The Good News:
    • Irish won their bowl game
    • Weather in Carolinas was significantly warmer than it is here
    • Despite nearly a 10 year hiatus, I skied really, really well
    • I had enough hugs and laughs from my family to last me for a couple of months
    • Weight is still very under control
    • I have a Double Bubble card

    Saturday, December 28, 2013

    20 Things We Should Say More Often, Plus Ten Bonus Ones



    Here are the bonus ones:

    1. You mean a lot to me
    2. How can I help you?
    3. Another beer?  Hell yes
    4. I admire that in you
    5. You look awesome
    6. This one is on me
    7. I am blessed and grateful
    8. Here, let me get that for you
    9. That sunrise/sunset is absolutely beautiful
    10. Thank you, Lord
    Which ones are still missing?

    Friday, December 27, 2013

    Beyonce Makes a Dying Girl's Wish Come True

    I admit I'm not a fan of Beyonce's, but after watching this, you can't help but have a lot of admiration:


    It takes so little to mean so much, doesn't it?

    Thursday, December 26, 2013

    Phil Robertson vs. A&E, or Bigger than That?

    Answer?  It's bigger than that.

    What is happening is that "political correctness" is attempting to drown our what is perceived to be an offensive opinion.  Never mind that Phil's religious orthodoxy holds an equally offensive opinion in the other direction.  And in this day and age, political correctness trumps religion.  Every time.

    Who's right?  Me personally, I always come down on the side of openness and dialog, and against bullying and censorship.  And that is exactly what GLAAD is espousing.

    I have dear friends and family that are gay.  It is my belief that they were that way their whole lives, and that they cannot change who or what they are.  It is not their choice, anymore than my heterosexuality is my choice.  That's just how I see the world.

    Some people see the world differently, and that's fine.  We're better as a society when we talk to each other and communicate.  But when there is a demand that all talk cease, and when bully tactics are applied to promote a position, we all lose.

    If anything, the gay community should know what it is like to be forced to comply by powerful forces.  By doing the exact same thing to those of a religious persuasion, they ultimately become what it is that they abhor.  And that's the irony of the entire situation.  Tolerance demanded but not given gets nothing.  Only hate.

    And religious, gay, both or neither, haven't we had enough of that?

    Monday, December 23, 2013

    WestJet Scores Social Media Home Run

    It borrows a lot from Coke's Happiness Machine campaign (too much, perhaps?), but still the campaign caught viral fire, and the benefits for WestJet's brand are solid.

    Pretty good stuff:

    Saturday, December 21, 2013

    Amazing Mountain Biking Video

    I cannot image these guys' strength, vision, and balance.  I just about fall over in my chair watching it...

    Friday, December 20, 2013

    The Power of "I Don't" Over "I Can't"

    A number of months ago, I learned of a study via Lifehacker that was conducted by The Journal of Consumer Research.  In the study, they split subjects into two groups, then presented those subjects with a temptation.  The group that used the internal mantra "I can't x..." actually broke down on their promise at twice the rate that the group that used "I don't x..."

    Not only that, but the "I don't x..." group persisted in their fortitude more successfully in the long term as well.

    At the start of the year, unbeknownst to the benefits of the use of the phrase "I don't x..." I started saying "I don't eat sweets," when offered them.  And for about a full calendar year, I haven't broke down once.

    However, after having read the report, I started incorporating the mantra as it pertains to my trips to the gym.  Dozens of times I have said to myself that "I don't miss workouts," while lying there dead tired in bed.  And every time my big butt has hauled itself out of bed and headed off to the gym.

    It may not work for everybody, but more me it has been a very powerful tool. 
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